《请不要在我的墓前哭泣》是美国诗人玛莉·伊莉莎白·弗莱的作品，又被叫做《化为千风》。nn全文：nnDo not stand at my grave and weepnn请不要站在我的墓前哭泣nnI am not there,I do not sleepnn我不在那里，我并没有睡去nnI am a thousand winds that blownn我是激扬起的风，千丝万缕nnI am the diamond glints on snownn我是雪地里的钻石，熠熠生辉nnI am the sunlight on ripened grainnn我是温暖的阳光，亲近着稻谷nnI amthe gentle autumn's rainnn我是秋季里的细雨，轻轻柔柔nnWhen yu awaken in the morning hushnn当你清醒于早晨的安宁nnI am the swift up liftght rushnn我奔放着飞升的激情nnOf quiet birds in circled flightnn在鸟儿幽静的盘旋种nnI am the soft stars that shine at nightnn我有是释放温柔的朗朗群星nnDo not stand at my grave and crynn请不要在我的墓前悲泣，nnI am not there,I did not dienn我不在那里，我并没有离去。nn
E02:(关于“笑”背后隐含的深意)nThere is nothing more deceptive than a smile,and no one knows this better than the people who hide behind them.
nS04 E05(关于“死亡”)nKatherine:“What does it feel like? Dying, I mean.”nAunt Lily:“It's not that bad.I feel lucky.When you know time is running out, you get a chance to reflect on your life. I really did try to live a good one.”
nE07 (重获新生的Lynette)n“What does not kill us, just makes us stronger.”--尼采n
nE08(关于“谎言”)nWhy do people resort to deception?nBecause it's a handy tool that helps get us exactly what we're looking for.n为何人们总是诉诸于谎言?n因为谎言让我们更易接近内心深处的真实愿望。
nE09(关于“过去”)nWe think of the past as water under the bridge,a current that carries away the mistakes of our youths--the loves we lost,the addictions we gave into,the opportunities we threw away……But sooner or later,reminders drift back into our lives of the mistakes we made and the sins we committed.n我们常把过去必成桥下的流水，卷走年少时曾犯下的错误——失去的爱情，沉迷的激情，错过的机遇……但是迟早有人会来提醒我们，人生中犯过的错和造过的孽。nThe past is never truly behind us.Ghosts lurk in the shadows,eager to remind us of the choices we made.n过去从未真正逝去。潜伏在暗处的幽灵，总让我们回忆起曾经的选择。nSadly,some of us refuse to look back,never understanding that by denying the past,we are condenmed to repeat it.n不幸的是，有些人不愿回头看，他们永远不会懂得，否认过去，我们注定会重蹈覆辙。
E10&11(龙卷风，个人认为最好看的两集)nMcCluskey对着Ida的骨灰说的一段话：n“Do not stand at my grave and weep,n不要站在我的坟前哭泣，nI'm not there; I do not sleep.n我不在里面，我不在沉睡。nI'm a thousand winds that blow;n我是一阵一阵的微风；nI am the diamond glimpse of snow;n我是雪地钻石般的光辉；nI'm the sunlight on ripened grain;n我是照在成熟稻子上的阳光；nI am the gentle autumn's rain.n我是秋日温柔的细雨。nDo not stand at my grave and cry,n不要站在我的坟前哭泣，nI am not there; I did not die.”n我不在里面，我并没有死亡。
E12:(关于内心的“blindness”)nYes,the world is filled with those who cannot see,and the most dangerous are the ones who stay blind to the evil within their own hearts.n这世界到处是丧失视觉的人们，n最危险的是那些对心中恶魔视而不见的人。
E15:(关于“母亲节”)nIt happens the second Sunday of every May.We celebrate the women who give our life and so much more,the ones who protect us at all costs,who have the courage to fight those who would do us harm,who put our happiness ahead of their own.nBut mostly,we celebrate a mother's love,which is constant and eternal,and there from the very beginning.
E16:(关于“名字”)nWhat's a name?Did a labels we attach to people, tell us everything we need to know?If we say she's just a child,does it mean she is truly innocent? Does calling her a drug-dealer prove she is purily evil? Will a man known as preacher always practise what he preaches? Can a man branded a villain access the qualities of a hero? nThe truth is, a name can never really tell you who someone is,any more that they can't tell you what they are capable of.n名字的意义何在? 我们用来识别他人的标签，是否给予我们应知的一切呢?如果我们说她不过是个孩子，是否就意味着她真的无辜?为她冠以毒贩的头衔，就能说明她十恶不赦吗？有着传道士身份的男人，又是否会常常练习传道解惑?被打上罪魁祸首烙印的男人，是否具有创造英雄壮举的潜能?n真相是，名字无法让你看清一个人的真面目，更无法让你知晓他们到底有怎样的能耐。
E17nTom 教训两个即将结婚的gay的台词:n“ Who gets to choose the ice sculpture, who should take out the trash, who has to stay home and make the mini-pitzas, that's the little stuff. What are you gonna do when the big stuffs come along?nWhat are you gonna do when the tornado hits your house, or you have probs with your kids, or one of you gets cancer? nAt some point,the crap is going to hit the fan, and that's why now before you make the commitment, you have to ask yourself:Is that person in the bed next to you worth the trouble?Do you love him or her so much that no decease,no disaster could possibly pull you apart?”n有些时候，麻烦就是这么产生的。所以现在这时候，在你们做出承诺之前，你必须扪心自问:躺在你身边的那个人，值得你去承担这一切吗？你爱他或者她够深吗？无论疾病灾难，都不会将你们分开吗?
美国诗人玛莉·伊丽莎白·弗莱（Mary Elizabeth Frye）
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there, I do not sleep
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
第十集
So yeah,I sprinkled her ashes,but it would have been nice to do something before she was ashes.
That's a lesson we all gotta learn over and over
Bree: Are you sure? Sweetheart,do you feel like you are making a mistake?
Daniel: No,it’s ..the right thing to do for everyone. Especially, him
But you’re right,it’s awful.
当D努力吞回眼泪哽咽着说出这段话时，我看见青春的忤逆，那些蛮横的张扬和充满针对性的跋扈通通磨损了羽翼而不再满溢光芒。
她的良和潜在的善逐渐苏醒，与那些不愿低头的悔过，却通通融进了一个Especially him.
而女孩儿成长为女人，母性逐渐彰显能够盘踞她内心的一部分时，过去那个骄傲从不低头的D，颤抖着下颌艰难地吐出“But you're right,it's awful.”
“It's awful.”
女孩儿随着成长的蜕皮，也终于开始疼了。
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另一，
还喜欢Lynette当得知自己痊愈后的那场戏。
你会看见她懵懵懂懂，反应了好一会儿才回味过来，然后恣意地舒展着身姿，完全融进了柔和的夜色与月光里，旋即颊边绽放了一个大大的笑靥。
忽然见了自己久逮未遂的鼹鼠，正在这样好的夜色中酣然安眠，那般甜美惬意。她突然间就后悔得泪流满面。
从这段戏中，我看到了那些真正属于自然的光华。此时，彼时，人、动物、整个自然界，甚至是月、夜、光都完整合一，和谐完整相契合，安然共处。你们都是在为生命歌唱的魂灵，彼此生活在同个圆里，又何必为难彼此。
最后的最后，L双手合十，面向鼹鼠而盘腿坐在草坪上，流着泪，也带着笑。
镜头上移，仿佛要消失进这无涯的夜里。
不要在我的墓前哭泣
我不在那里 我没有睡去
我是吹拂而过的千缕之风
已化为璀璨似钻的雪花
我是洒落在熟穗上的日光
化为了温柔的秋雨
当你在早晨的寂谧中醒来
是鸟儿沉默盘旋时
雀跃飞升的气流
我是夜晚中闪耀柔光的星子
不要站在我的墓前哭泣
我不在那儿 我没有逝去
《请不要在我的墓前哭泣》是美国诗人玛莉·伊莉莎白·弗莱的作品，又被叫做《化为千风》。nn全文：nnDo not stand at my grave and weepnn请不要站在我的墓前哭泣nnI am not there,I do not sleepnn我不在那里，我并没有睡去nnI am a thousand winds that blownn我是激扬起的风，千丝万缕nnI am the diamond glints on snownn我是雪地里的钻石，熠熠生辉nnI am the sunlight on ripened grainnn我是温暖的阳光，亲近着稻谷nnI amthe gentle autumn's rainnn我是秋季里的细雨，轻轻柔柔nnWhen yu awaken in the morning hushnn当你清醒于早晨的安宁nnI am the swift up liftght rushnn我奔放着飞升的激情nnOf quiet birds in circled flightnn在鸟儿幽静的盘旋种nnI am the soft stars that shine at nightnn我有是释放温柔的朗朗群星nnDo not stand at my grave and crynn请不要在我的墓前悲泣，nnI am not there,I did not dienn我不在那里，我并没有离去。nn
E02:(关于“笑”背后隐含的深意)nThere is nothing more deceptive than a smile,and no one knows this better than the people who hide behind them.
nS04 E05(关于“死亡”)nKatherine:“What does it feel like? Dying, I mean.”nAunt Lily:“It's not that bad.I feel lucky.When you know time is running out, you get a chance to reflect on your life. I really did try to live a good one.”
nE07 (重获新生的Lynette)n“What does not kill us, just makes us stronger.”--尼采n
nE08(关于“谎言”)nWhy do people resort to deception?nBecause it's a handy tool that helps get us exactly what we're looking for.n为何人们总是诉诸于谎言?n因为谎言让我们更易接近内心深处的真实愿望。
nE09(关于“过去”)nWe think of the past as water under the bridge,a current that carries away the mistakes of our youths--the loves we lost,the addictions we gave into,the opportunities we threw away……But sooner or later,reminders drift back into our lives of the mistakes we made and the sins we committed.n我们常把过去必成桥下的流水，卷走年少时曾犯下的错误——失去的爱情，沉迷的激情，错过的机遇……但是迟早有人会来提醒我们，人生中犯过的错和造过的孽。nThe past is never truly behind us.Ghosts lurk in the shadows,eager to remind us of the choices we made.n过去从未真正逝去。潜伏在暗处的幽灵，总让我们回忆起曾经的选择。nSadly,some of us refuse to look back,never understanding that by denying the past,we are condenmed to repeat it.n不幸的是，有些人不愿回头看，他们永远不会懂得，否认过去，我们注定会重蹈覆辙。
E10&11(龙卷风，个人认为最好看的两集)nMcCluskey对着Ida的骨灰说的一段话：n“Do not stand at my grave and weep,n不要站在我的坟前哭泣，nI'm not there; I do not sleep.n我不在里面，我不在沉睡。nI'm a thousand winds that blow;n我是一阵一阵的微风；nI am the diamond glimpse of snow;n我是雪地钻石般的光辉；nI'm the sunlight on ripened grain;n我是照在成熟稻子上的阳光；nI am the gentle autumn's rain.n我是秋日温柔的细雨。nDo not stand at my grave and cry,n不要站在我的坟前哭泣，nI am not there; I did not die.”n我不在里面，我并没有死亡。
E12:(关于内心的“blindness”)nYes,the world is filled with those who cannot see,and the most dangerous are the ones who stay blind to the evil within their own hearts.n这世界到处是丧失视觉的人们，n最危险的是那些对心中恶魔视而不见的人。
E15:(关于“母亲节”)nIt happens the second Sunday of every May.We celebrate the women who give our life and so much more,the ones who protect us at all costs,who have the courage to fight those who would do us harm,who put our happiness ahead of their own.nBut mostly,we celebrate a mother's love,which is constant and eternal,and there from the very beginning.
E16:(关于“名字”)nWhat's a name?Did a labels we attach to people, tell us everything we need to know?If we say she's just a child,does it mean she is truly innocent? Does calling her a drug-dealer prove she is purily evil? Will a man known as preacher always practise what he preaches? Can a man branded a villain access the qualities of a hero? nThe truth is, a name can never really tell you who someone is,any more that they can't tell you what they are capable of.n名字的意义何在? 我们用来识别他人的标签，是否给予我们应知的一切呢?如果我们说她不过是个孩子，是否就意味着她真的无辜?为她冠以毒贩的头衔，就能说明她十恶不赦吗？有着传道士身份的男人，又是否会常常练习传道解惑?被打上罪魁祸首烙印的男人，是否具有创造英雄壮举的潜能?n真相是，名字无法让你看清一个人的真面目，更无法让你知晓他们到底有怎样的能耐。
E17nTom 教训两个即将结婚的gay的台词:n“ Who gets to choose the ice sculpture, who should take out the trash, who has to stay home and make the mini-pitzas, that's the little stuff. What are you gonna do when the big stuffs come along?nWhat are you gonna do when the tornado hits your house, or you have probs with your kids, or one of you gets cancer? nAt some point,the crap is going to hit the fan, and that's why now before you make the commitment, you have to ask yourself:Is that person in the bed next to you worth the trouble?Do you love him or her so much that no decease,no disaster could possibly pull you apart?”n有些时候，麻烦就是这么产生的。所以现在这时候，在你们做出承诺之前，你必须扪心自问:躺在你身边的那个人，值得你去承担这一切吗？你爱他或者她够深吗？无论疾病灾难，都不会将你们分开吗?
(有些英文是自己听写的，如有错误欢迎指正～)